About

Remember: The name's Wesley.

Hi, this blog started on two different platforms (from omg.lol to Bear, to here), but I chose to port only a few. I basically needed a fresh start, and a lot of my old personal posts are kinda...cringe.

I want to blog more about the things that bring me joy, and maybe a few of the things that frustrate me. If I'm feeling bold, I may try to blog a little in German, but not Japanese. I'm not there yet.

This is also a good time to say that I have so many micro identities. I usually just go by "queer" as a catchall, unless people ask for the specifics (lesbian on the aroace spectrum).

In terms of neurodivergence, I emphasize AuDHD, but that's just a small piece of the pie. OCD is part of the mix, as is depression, and I have so much anger in terms of the latter. As well as CPTSD. And then there's aphantasia and dyscalculia, which are just "there". The two are more recent discoveries, with the latter being affirmed by a former therapist. I nearly cried once I had a word for my math difficulties.

But yeah. This is me. And that title up top? A little nod to Who's Lila, cause I'm a dork and that's one of my favorite games ever.

And if you want to support me, donate to my Ko-fi or buy my books!